2011年10月5日星期三

Trustworthy信任n Commitment is IMPORTANT in LIFE

Actually i want write in mandarin..but i just know how 2 say do not know how write in mandarin..so now this post i write in English form la..haha

Actually,this happen few weeks ago,1 of my NS friend sms me ask whether i can top up for her dg number rm30 anot..n she say she will top up for me next time..
as she is my friend..i say OK n help her top up with my own money..
after few days, she ask me free to top up agn for 2nd time..
the reason she say is she now at hill dun hv place to top up..
n she say she will gv back me on 29 September..
then i trust her n top up for her 4 the 2nd time..
so now total she hutang me is rm90..then i say 1 month top up for me 1 time..so she should top up me for 3 month..
but,now dy 6 of October..1 week after the date she should top up for me..
this make me 对她的信任度越来越低。。
not i don want to trust her..
n she gv me geh reason 越来越假。。make me not so trust her anymore..

on 29 n 30..she say the shop near her house close dy..cnt help me top up..then she say Sunday top up for me..i say OK
on Sunday..she say she juz finiz work n shop close dy..n her friend will help me top up..
i say ok agn..i trust her..
but..until yesterday..i ask her to top up for me agn..she say her friend dy top up..but today 5/10 oni can receive..
then i think 'HAR'.. Digi top up not pay dy jau will receive soon a..didn't u lie me ???
then i say ok..but now dy 6/10 dy..y i didn't get the $$ like wat she say ??

y she still hvn top up for me ?
this make me not so trust her anymore..really..
y !!
Not i dun wan trust u..is u didn't do wat u promise me..
if u cnt pay back for this few week or got $$ problem nd pay back me later u should tell me..i won't force u pay now..
can rm 10 rm 10 top up for me..
or gv me a date when u really can top up for me..
this I will 体谅 U !!
not always say will top up this few days but in the end NO !!!

If i m a rich person..u got $$ problem nd my help I can help..
but i am not !! i m not a rich person..n RM60 is much for me..this can b my 1 week pocket money in university life !!

Moreover, ur action make me feel u dun wan top up for me..
like sometime when I call u y u dun answer my call..
y i sms u 'y u hvn top up for mr' u didn't gv an explanation for me ??
u always like that make me don wan trust u anymore..
make me feel rm90 cnt claim back agn !!!
b4 tat, i really really treat u as my friend n I trust u will gv me back..
But now..NO MORE 信任 on u..
plz dun blaim me..don blame me y i always rush u to top up for me..
is u urself make me feel like tat..as RM90 is not a small $$ for me..

wat can i say now is if i still don receive the dg reload $$..i will say tat i use rm60 buy 2 lesson
N, from here i get a leason is ..
don't simply borrow money for the 1 who not so close or not so familiar with..if want borrow make sure is the 1 you can trust on..
Another lesson is..
朋友之间的承诺是很重要的~~
答应的事一定要做到!!失信的话就会使别人不再信任于你了 !!